Hisss

I have no subject matter expertise on “Married Life”, but when a close friend with considerable amount of married life experience, puts a mail in response to chain that was going around, it did have a good effect. I do not know how will my blog help his cause but surely this needs a mention. Thank you “Juice Baron”…..Below is the mail:

I have few things to say to all innocent wives out there who are so tired managing and training their respective husbands:

1. Don't treat us like a project and try to fix us. You girls knew what you were getting into.
2. In an argument we use logic and you use emotions as weapon. You girls start crying or get emotional (ex: I left my family for U) the moment you know you are reaching nowhere. If we try to put forward our point we are bullies and if we lose we are weak.
3. Kindly do not ask us what we are thinking, the answer would be nothing and believe us “it’s true". We can spend the whole day doing nothing like how you wives can spend the whole day complaining and cribbing.
4. We like spending time with our friends and playing sports. We are ok if you girls spend time with your friends too but unfortunately husband is the only friend left after marriage.
5. We are basically cool and calm because we do not think about future like you do. You are more worried about what to wear for office, how am I looking, etc etc......... We live in this moment.
6. Kindly do not compare husbands with Hollywood stars and do not compare our stories with romantic movies. You do not know how Angelina and Brad Pitt behave at home. Do not complain that we have become less romantic after marriage.... the truth is we become more practical.

We husbands do not like complaining..... But I had to write such a big article to enlighten you. Please treat this article as a guide to understand your husbands. I am not saying husbands are the best in the world... all I am trying to convey is, we have a world outside married life and you close your world (except shopping) after marriage.

From,
A Husband who is trying to balance his world - (wife, profession, hobbies and friends) To Wives who try to manage her world - (Husband)

I will pray that this romance stays strong and lasts long...

Comments

  1. Kalyani SirikiMarch 22, 2012 at 4:51 AM

    Hey Raghu, is the article out of your personal experience (just asked :) )? It is nice and I think it would have been on top if this was written few years back. There is lot of change now and ofcourse people started reacting as per the situations. And if you ask me what is that I'm talking'bot - it is the samething that you've written here - Life after marriage :)

    Instead of comparisions and misunderstandings, if both Man & Woman or rather say Husband & Wife have mutual understanding and respect eachother's likes & dislikes with honest feelings, then there is no limit to the happiness that you have after your marriage.
    Good Luck !!!

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    1. T. R. RaoMarch 22, 2012 at 5:59 AM

      Hi Kalyani, No this is not out of my personal experience. I think you just need to read the previous blog and you would have got all the "Understanding and Respect" that is around.
      and thanks for wishing me Good luck...All the best!!!

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