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The Struggle 5.50

Was just chilling out and passing time and a thought just came by about “ Marriage ”. Then felt it would be good to pen down what I went through and that too at a time when we would be on the verge of completing 5 years of married life. This would not be about what all happened during the marriage but about what happened even before I came to a point where I was sure of saying “I am going to get married”. I will break this down into stages for better understanding; my profile intro on the blog “ A Brahmin Boy ” itself is a good indication of what would the process be like, Then why should I write about it? Just because the times have changed and the way people see an individual also changed during this period of time. Stage 1: For us matching of horoscope is a must and I cannot even tell the number of prospects my parents looked at, this is one hell of a tedious task. Even after horoscopes match, if boy did not like girl or vice versa happens then you are back to stage 1...
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I See You

Every Day!! Yes everyday “I see you” and one question I ask is “Enduku chudaley nenu ninnu?” every time I say this to her and then there is a big smile on my face and I feel happy. I could not share these experiences with my wife, as I fear our equation after all these years would change…. Strangely enough my Wife introduced me to her and I instantly found ……………………….. Few days later I get a photo of her and it still is in my phone. I changed to a new phone, had 5 years’ worth of photos, everything gets deleted or saved but she is the only one that stays steady till date. There are strange ways you are tested in life and in my case one day, I and my wife along with my elder sister were out for shopping, and for the lack of parking place at GPO, I parked my vehicle at an opposite shopping mall. I along with my sister went into shopping mall as if we wanted to shop and my Wife went for the real work at GPO. Few minutes into the shopping, my sister was checking out dresses which we ...
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Trial Room

The moment one says the word “Shopping” women will surely will come into picture, numerous jokes on it etc... etc... I am not going to tell you about the regular stuff that goes around with shopping along with your beloved…..the shopping routines, buying, bargaining and excitement all these are as usual as any other. For me the more funny part of all this shopping is waiting outside the “ Trial Room ”. First and fore most I must thank my “ BEST ” half for taking me through one of a kind shopping experience. With her it is more calculated and planned shopping, yes we do have those mood-off or irritated days while shopping but all in all it’s been exciting. Will go in length some other time but let’s get back to the agenda…. Men around Here!!! Talking about men, when the main topic is about woman, is little disturbing but none the less we men are un-separable part of this shopping festival. Okie now picture these situations …. While my lady is in the trial room, I am waitin...
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D-MAT - 69 (Beta)

Raghu Babu, Raghu Babu, where have you been? I've been studying married couples, to get a look at the aftermath scene. Raghu Babu, Raghu Babu, what will, you do now? I will frighten the unmarried ones with my blogs!!! Wanted to use the word “Enlighten” in place of “Frighten”, I was sure that, I would end up frightening a lot of people with my limited expertise. So Instead came with an exam concept, and within few minutes began the battle of sexes, should this be for both or should I contribute something towards the male community. This brought me to the below questionnaire for my fellow men and see how prepared is an individual for the celestial blessing called “Marriage”. I will call this D-MAT – 69 (Beta Version). It is going to be hard for the individual to convince himself for his marriage-readiness, but I will try making it easier for you to evaluate yourself with this test: Points to remember: 1. All questions are mandatory. 2. Separate instructions...
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Twice in a Day

Now after all the writing I have done after marriage, this title itself should be enough indication about what I am going to talk ….Yes Yes Yes…..Looks like you got it!!! You are eager to read more about it!!! BUT I am sure that I will leave you guys disappointed by the time you read the last line. Me and My Wife were on a recent trip to a temple town (What you guys in temple town also???), if that was the question in your mind then my answer is “ This can happen to anyone at any time ” We guys just finished our pooja and were going for the darshan, we were in the general queue for the darshan. I was behind my wife, covering her from the overcrowded line. And then…. A guy behind me kept pushing me forward....Initially I thought it was the general rush to reach god!!! But then the way he kept pushing was not something normal. I swear if ever I read this blog again, I will avoid reading these next words…..I could literally feel his penis on my ass…. The first time I felt like ...
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The "Typo"

Chat/IM, SMS has become so prevalent a medium of communication and my primary means with most of my friends and clients abroad. At times we may have to remind ourselves how the real world works. The advent of mobile phone and SMS did play a part in killing the “Half Knowledge” I had of English. At a time where every letter and word counts and directly has an impact on your money, we end up inventing a more convenient form of English. There are downsides to this, I tend to make typos (might sound simple but not really). Some typos end up being innocent but some promote profound misunderstanding of my character. I would like to justify myself for some of the unflattering impressions I may have created and also try to comment on few chat notations that can be tried in real life but at your own expense. Speedster Mistakes: Chatting with a female and you type (Go tit), now that might sound like you may have rooted for a specific body part, but yeah we know, you just meant to ...
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Star Event

I (i) was just going through my marriage album and there was one pose that made me stop and think for a while, it is the eternal pose where the boy is pointing towards sky and girl is smilingly looking along with him into the unknown skies. Yes, both of them looking at “Arundhati Nakshatram” (Star). Most of the south Indian marriages I know have this tradition. Truly I never understood what this is all about; I have seen so many marriages in and around my family, every time it was more on poking fun and disturbing the couple. Just got to learn some meaning of all this but before that, let me go about my way of reading it all this while. Imagine all the people around you who have meticulously been pestering you for marriage, this is the moment of truth for most of them. For all the struggle and pain they have taken all this while for pushing you into this thing called “marriage”, this star gazing moment is when they start telling you the real side of it. Ever heard the Telugu phras...
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